Good morning,
I know by definition this isn't 'shoulder season', but wow. It feels that way -- the lull, the meh which exists between peaks. What-cha say we focus on what my German father used to call schnipples. (Weekly debris, lol.)
So relieved when he assured me the big lump which mysteriously appeared on my lower cheek is a harmless cyst. Unfortunately, I didn't realize my insurance requires pre-approval/authorization for any procedure, so that's tabled. Maybe I'll add this to my next Target list!
I'm going to be serious for a minute.
Looking back to Monday. Bible study. (Yes, Betty, you were right about looking out for hidden gems.) I'm still not crazy for the theme. This time, however, we were divided into smaller groups and asked to consider the 'outsider' -- how do we observe them (and/or) or how does it feel to be one.
I've talked about it before. Because my teen years weren't all sunshine and lollipops, the term 'active ignoring' resonated. I've held it carefully, marveling how the magic of words can nail a feeling so perfectly.
Then Brenda spoke. This, a lady who I've always admired for her poise, her confidence. "Because I was so terribly shy, I bullied myself. Why then, was I surprised when others bullied me?"
Camaraderie arrives in all forms, doesn't it?




Myra, I love this post! Camaraderie (a favorite word of mine!) does indeed some in all forms! I feel blessed by your friendship and Brenda did hit the nail on the head!! Have a blessed week ahead! xo
ReplyDeleteAw, thank you so much! 😘
DeleteGlad you are finding the hidden gems :) I'm not sure I would enjoy basil as a soap flavor myself, lol. What were they thinking? Glad you found a good use for it for Tom :) Good news too from the dermatologist! Sounds like it was a pretty good week in the long run!
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Yes, I suppose it was!
DeleteHope your approval goes through. Sorry the Mrs. Meyers basil didn't work. Good for you on your hack. Very interesting about your Bible study. Hope you are having a nice Sunday.
ReplyDeleteCrossing fingers for the authorization ... I hate dealing with insurance companies!
DeleteIck on the Basil...I like the Lemon, and the other scents like Rose, that is really nice...anyways, hope your approval goes well. As for decorating or whatever for fall--listen, gf, its HOTter than hades, LOLOLOL. I simply can't get in the mood, LOLOLOL.
ReplyDeleteLemon's in my cart right now! And I swear, I'll never complain about being cold again!
DeleteLike you, Myra, I gave up on "properly" folding fitted sheets ages ago. As long as they are folded in some doable way, I'm content. I did enjoy your variety of thoughts and ideas shared here, too. Glad all is A-OK with the dermatologist.
ReplyDeleteBlessings!
Good to know! Thanks, Martha!
DeletePraying you and Tom are well health-wise.
ReplyDeleteWe don't bother folding sheets. We just hide them under the mattress. We now have so many we need a ladder to get into bed and when we wake up we hit our head on the ceiling.
Is there a garlic scented soap anywhere? It would be fun at parties.
Many people often feel shy, lonely and rejected. This is sad. Because they fail to appreciate that they are special. Others may not have realised it; but God surely has.
God bless, Mevely.
There you go! Thankfully, we don't own that many sheet sets.
DeletePS - I adore the aroma of garlic!
We gave up on fitted sheets, we only buy the flats. They work just fine. 😊
ReplyDeleteWow. My hat's off to you!
DeleteI don't fold my fitted sheet...I wash it and put it right back on the bed. The few extra sets I have stay put away unless we have company or we wet the bed or something crazy like that. LOL> They aren't perfectly folded, but they fit in the space wherever they are. Gosh, I've heard there are still people out there who like to IRON their sheets...I don't even iron my shirts or pants or anything unless it is absolutely necessary and I can' get the wrinkles out by drying it in the dryer a few more times...LOL. Anyway, I enjoyed your "Schnipples". I'm afraid I was never shy. Many people probably wish I had been. But I covered up my feelings of insecurity or inferiority by being somewhat loud and talkative. I was born a redhead and had to defend myself all the time. You'd never believe all the mean things people say to redheads, but I convinced myself they were just jealous of my bright red coppery locks and freckles. That's how I coped with the insults of "I'd rather be dead than red on the head", "Carrot top", etc. They were just plain jealous. LOL. I wish I'd known you back in the day. We could have been friends then I am sure. But you probably would have told me to please sit down and be quiet. LOL. God bless you dear friend. I wish we could meet now!!! Have a blessed week.
ReplyDeleteActually, I've always gravitated to extroverts like you! And my BF 'back when' was a red head, too.
DeleteFitted sheets are the devil's handiwork. I have exhausted every possibility of try to fold them. Lately I just crumple them up and put them in plastic bags. Now that I live alone, my "fancy" days are over. Bosco doesn't care what the sheets look like.
ReplyDeleteBasil??? I have no idea what it smells like.
But I'd definitely take acorn.
Yea, right - - bring on autumn!
Meant to say "trying", not "try".
DeleteOne of my favorite things in the world are fresh (crisp) sheets -- but lately I'm content to leave that amenity to hotel rooms.
Deletewhen you purchased your weighted blanket, before you stored it under the mattress, I quickly purchased one for bob since his constant complaints of his legs being cold were driving me nuts. he never once used it. I got the twin size. it now belong to Beau and he loves it. in the closet we have a dog bed, on that is the weighted blanket with a sheet and a pillow... he was not sleeping in the closet until the weighted blanket. I think it makes his hip feel better.
ReplyDeleteso happy you found a gem hidden in the bible study and also connected with a new friend
Thanks for the blanket update! Must confess, I've a love/hate relationship with mine.
DeleteI'm thankful too that the lump was a cyst. What a blessing. Hope you are soon able to have it treated.
ReplyDeleteInsurance is good but sometimes a hassle. I wanted to let you know that your comments yesterday did show up in my email. Strange they didn't appear on my blog. I am glad you are finding the hidden treasures in your bible study. It's always great when people can share like that. I have often heard that people will treat you like you treat yourself. So be good to yourself and smile ! Love, ma
Thanks for letting me know, Ma. I'd hate for you to think I was ignoring what you post!
DeleteI do not fold fitted sheets, well at least not neatly. And I have absolutely no problem with that. lol So glad the lump is not something serious and I hope your insurance will okay the removal quickly.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Cathy,! I'm going to wait to consult my PCP at my regular appt. In October and see what she has to allow.
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