Earlier this week, several of the "Gatherers" met for our monthly luncheon.
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| (l-r) Brenda, Shannon, me, Sally, Bev, Cindy, Kay |
Well, before everyone's rain gear was put away, someone broached the subject about S's behavior while at Bible study Monday morning. The "Elephant in the Room." (You know, the one everyone sees but no-one talks about.) A relative newcomer to study, S is a bit outspoken. In a word, Self-congratulatory.
Is she a bad person? I doubt it, but then I don't think anyone's anxious to be pals. As she was speaking, I struggled not to roll my eyes. At.Bible.Study! WWJD?
Ever have someone rub you the wrong way? For no particular reason?
I'm reminded of a line from (a favorite musical) Carousel. "What's the use of wonderin' if he's good or if he's bad, or if you like the way he wears his hat?"
Back to my group of Gatherers.
Selfishly, when I formed this little tribe, I imagined a group of fun loving, like-minded ladies -- separate and apart from church-related functions. Unfortunately, one day at Bible study someone spoke out of turn. Before we knew it, another demanded to know why she hadn't been invited. One thing led to another, and B's name was added, albeit reluctantly.
Now, one of the Gatherers has asked if she might invite a certain someone else ("N") to join. While others at the table enthused, "Great idea!", I did my level best to smile sincerely.
What no-one knows -- I'm not proud of this -- a few years ago I UN-friended N. on Facebook. Not because she'd done anything to me, or against me. In fact, I don't even know she realizes it. N's always first to offer a big hug on Sunday morning, never realizing I'm mentally gritting my teeth -- remembering something she'd publicly posted about someone I admire.
Gosh, what am I, 12 years old?
What's it all about, Alfie?
I often wonder what Heaven will really feel like?
Personally, I hope it's a Place where both sides of the pillow are always cool.
More importantly, I hope the angels will restore calm where there is chaos. How will they resolve our Irreconcilable Differences?
I like what blog friend, Victor, has shared in The Christian Lounge. I think you might, too. (Click here)
Thank you for making time to visit me!
Hugs, Myra