Thursday, October 15, 2020

Denizens of the Park

 


Tuesday.

"It was supposed to be a routine procedure. No-one could have predicted her aorta would rupture."

Relating his wife's death, the old man's voice was strong, his eyes dry. "Two years it's been.  Then, two weeks later my best friend went and killed himself."


Oh, wow.  I've never been good expressing condolences, especially to a stranger.  But seeing his smiling face bathed in the morning light begged a, "Good morning. Yes, isn't it a beautiful day?"  

Pleasantries.  I've discovered that's how most denizens of Village Green regard one another.


But 'Larry' seemed inclined to more than superficiality.  My fault, perhaps, for commenting on his Veteran cap.  His body language fairly shouts, "Lonely: party of one."


Easy chit-chat.
Come here often?  Now that the weather's cooling, I admit to having indulged in an extra hour's sleep ... leaving the 7 o'clock hour to those more serious about their fitness routine.

"Um, you have a blessed day, now."

"You, too, sugar."
(Good grief. I don't recall ever having been called, 'sugar.')

Another circuit.  I'm curiously happy to see Larry's engaged in conversation once more.  The woman sits alongside, leaning into his words.  Soon, they're up and walking. 




Wednesday.
Regrets.
Nearing my second mile, I spot Larry leaning on his cane.  He pats the bench, "Please sit. Tell me something good."

Mental sigh. I remove my ear buds; sit.
I ask about his late wife, how his therapy's progressing.

A talker, this one.
I don't think to filter my answers.

Growing uncomfortable.  An occasional compliment is always welcomed, but this. This is beginning to border on the Too Much.
"Well, I really gotta go."

"Well, thank you so much for sharing a little time with me."


Today? I've given myself a time-out. Enjoying a 3rd cup of coffee.
Methinks it's time I rejoin the early risers.


Y'all have a great day ... stay safe out there!

Hugs,
Myra


   



31 comments:

  1. I do believe old Larry has the hots for you Myra! Yep, time to rejoin the early risers lol.

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  2. the 6 years I worked as a volunteer in a nursing home, the one thing they all wanted the most, was talking to someone and someone to listen the their stories. over and over and over. because they did not remmber they told me... you did amazing talking to him both times

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    1. I never considered he might have a bit of dementia going on. Thanks!

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  3. You probably don't realise it, but most likely you were the only ray of sunshine in that man's life that day. An angel sent to him in his hour of loneliness. Thank you.

    God bless you, Mevely.

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  4. I think you are sweet to have given this man some time and attention - know it is hard though.

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    1. Well, I enjoyed his company ... until he began getting too personal.

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  5. I am sure you brighten his days. ((Hugs))

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  6. You probably don't realize it, but Myra...he just wants someone to talk too. I would also say you made his day, my friend. smiles

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    1. Maybe it's a case of 'you had to be there' -- but I think this guy gives a certain political candidate a good name. LOL.

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  7. Victor is probably right, and of course youare a 'Sweetie' Sugar.
    Loved the entry. A sweet read but probably early is good. LOL
    Thanks for the smiles, LIFE is good.

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    1. LOL! Yep, Life is good -- made better by friends. :)

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  8. Just taking time to chat with this lonely guy certainly made his day, Myra. Maybe, you could decide to walk later at least one day a week?
    Blessings!

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    1. You never know. Even with my wonky back, I could always out-run him. (*Grin*)

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  9. Oh boy. Sounds like he is fishing, for sure! Yep... get out there at least 30 minutes earlier or find a new route!! Bless his heart.

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    1. Thank you for concurring with my spidey senses, Terri! Hugs!

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  10. I'm with Victor S E Moubarak on this, Myra. In my life, I've encountered several angels. They don't identify themselves as angels and may not even know they're angels, but the Universe has put them in my path to stabilize me in times of trouble. It's not always so obvious as my nurse during open heart surgery whose nametag read "Gabriel",
    but I sense the potential of one in you.

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    1. What a beautiful thing to say. Thank you so much, Geo!

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  11. Aw...thank you for talking to him. I totally suck at offering condolences, but when it comes to listening to stories of long ago or just to today's aches and pains, I have always drawn old men like flies to honey. My daughter used to say it was my super power...put me in an aisle with 50 other people in the grocery store and the old guy is going to focus on me. It used to drive me nuts, but I've discovered I love to hear their stories. Old folks are like walking libraries and we need to listen while we can.

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    1. No wonder the residents where you worked adored you, Stacy. Walking libraries, yep.

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  12. I usually say all the wrong things when giving condolences but I'm known to put my feet in my mouth on many occasion :) It was good you spent some time talking to him. Who knows down the line if someone will take the time to talk with you or Tom when the other one is no longer there (YEARS DOWN THE LINE).

    BETTY

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    1. Aw, now you're making me feel guilty, Betty. (JK, smile). Bless his heart, Tom would probably talk to the paint on the wall. LOL.

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  13. A beautifully written post, Myra, but a rather sad one. I always thought life would get easier as I grew older. Wow, was I ever wrong!!

    I'm not very good at conversing with strangers and I'm even worse at offering condolences.

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    1. Easier? I hear that one! Long time ago, I discovered a conversational trick -- to make it all about them.

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  14. You really made that man's day with your taking time to talk with him. I've never been an early morning walker. But I imagine a smile or two helps. When I walk here where I live, I never see anyone. They say when you see someone without a smile you should give them one of yours and you did a great job of that . Enjoy your walks!

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    1. Thank you! All the same, having a good audio book certainly helps.

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  15. I think this man needed someone to talk to.
    You are so kind to have talked to him.

    https://gloriasretiredlife.blogspot.com/

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    1. "All the lonely people, where do they all come from?" The Beatles got that one right!

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    God bless.

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