Thursday, September 24, 2020

TBT: Hair*ageddon



I'm sure late to the party ... but color me 'happy' to join Martha for another episode of Throwback Thursday.  Won't you consider joining us?  Just click here!


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Honestly, I'd no clue what to share today.
Until I looked in the bathroom mirror and saw the left side of my newly-cropped hair sticking straight out to the side.  

Regardless the length of my hair, that rogue 'flip' keeps me humble. Remember your mother or grandmother's mention of everyone having a 'cross to bear'?

Yep, my hair -- or lack thereof -- has always been my cross.


I'd cringe when looking at old photos of myself.  It's taken me years, but now I can look at them without flinching.  And even though I wasn't a nice-looking kid, I don't hate Young Me anymore.

If nothing else, perhaps these pictures will provide a dose of much-needed Comic Relief.


Up until my 10th birthday, mother faithfully kept my hair in 'french braids.'


Until she probably tired of my whining and took me to Mrs. Combs' beauty(?) shop for what was called a 'pixie cut.'

..... Destined to play the male role in scouting and summer camp productions for the next several years.


Unfortunately, the only personal care item my naturally-pretty mother owned was Vo5.

Yikes!


Sometimes I wanted to die in my sleep and come back as a 'Breck Girl.'  Instead, I discovered this

-- and hair spray, too!


The results were less than stellar


... as were the years I believed a wig was the next best thing to peanut butter.


Why didn't someone tell me how ridiculous I looked?!


Thankfully, about the time I quit caring so much, my head began to heal itself.  Sure, I still envy those ladies with thick tresses, but I no longer obsess about it. Like the lady said, "I ain't much baby, but I'm all I got."




Have a great day ... stay safe!

Hugs,
Myra

 

 

 


  

34 comments:

  1. Wondering...

    Why did you think you were not a "nice looking kid"????????????? You were pretty, and still are!!!!!!!!!!!!

    What Nasty Person, make you think, you were "not nice looking"???????????????? They should have been horse-whipped!

    Even though, they were probably a member of your immediate family. Harrumph...

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    1. Who? What? My own mirror.
      My parents, bless their hearts, thought their only child walked on water.

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  2. So silly Myra, you were an adorable kid and a beautiful woman! Your hair through the years looked like everyone else's did, even through the wig stage!

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    1. Thanks, Martha! Just sad it took me so long to realize no-one wasn't pointing and laughing. (Unless you count the little kids in France ca. 1957 who called me, 'Boy' because I was wearing slacks.)

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  3. Your mother did not have to have you practically shaved!!!!! Just to not have to braid your hair!

    Your hair looks like it was lovely straight blond hair. You could have had the 'Classic Dutch Boy Bob'. Bangs, and the rest, cut all around, about chin length, or a bit shorter. I love that cut on a little girl.

    Those were wigs! I thought so, when seeing them. 3 different colors!!!!

    Mmmm, I had a wig once, when it was fine, to have a wig, which was obviously NOT your own color. I loved Doris Day's Bangs and Page Boy and so...... I got one of those, in platinum blond!!!! Really!!!!

    LOLOLOLOLOLOOLOLLOLLL

    When I wanted Red, I dyed my hair. Not just any Red Color. Sorry to be graphic but the color was "Really *ucking Red" >,-)))) And it was!!!!!

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    1. Loved Doris Day! Before retiring, my 'hair artist' gave me the loveliest russet tone and golden tones -- for a 'pretty penny.' Now I've just let it go naturally white.

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  4. No matter what you think you were or what you looked like. Look again in the mirror and see what a wonderful person you are.

    God bless.

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    1. Oh, I just want to reach inside my computer and hug you!

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  5. You were cute as a kid, no matter what you may think, Myra! I remember my mother wouldn't let me grow my hair out - think the Carolyn Kennedy style. I finally won that battle when I was about 12. And I do recall when wigs were popular!
    Blessings!

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    1. I remember the Kennedy children's haircuts -- their fitted coats, too! I think everyone's mother wanted to duplicate the look.

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  6. this could be my post, i have similar photos, when i was in highschool, the hair was worn long and turned under, i think it was called page boy. my right side would turn under the other did what yours does, flip out and up. i went longer and yanked it back in a pony tail devided down the middle. i had to much hair, thick and straight and would do nothing. that said, i have looked back at my prior years, like you are doing here, and if you look at the other people with you there hair doesn't look great either. some of this was the style. the big wig you had i had that and it was MINE... YIKES.... I too have now accepted me but back then NO>>

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    1. That 'page boy style reminds me of the 'identical cousins' on the Patty Duke show. Yikes, if I'm not careful I'll start singing that theme song!

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  7. Haha Myra - I really enjoyed your hair through the years! I don't think I have that many photos of me in my life. You are pretty.

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  8. Dippity Do and hair spray, I remember those days well. :) I had mousy hair that always looked like it needed to be combed, even after combing. THEN, my Mother also discovered VO5 and Suave, my hair then became too heavy to move. Oh, those were the days!

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    2. Weren't they tho! I wonder if they still manufacture Alberto V05?

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  9. Myra, you were a beautiful child and you are a beautiful woman. You must need a new mirror, my friend! Hey... I had a pixie cut too and do remember wigs!! Love ya!

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    1. TYSM ❤! Wasn't it Mia Farrow who popularized that cut?

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  10. Thanks for your trip through your hair history. I'm sure that any 'woman of a certain age' has a drawerful of photos they don't care for.

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    1. Ooooh yeah. And perusing old yearbooks is great therapy. :)

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  11. I remember when pixie cuts were the thing. At least where I lived. You looked good with it. Do we know how you broke your arm? Drawing a blank here if you shared that before.

    I think all of us have had our hair "moments". I wore an Afro perm for a few years. I look back and think "really what was I thinking?" Now short and straight works the best for me :)

    betty

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    1. The cast? It was the result of a certain bicycle operator speeding downhill ... then coming to a sudden unceremonious stop over the handlebars and into a ditch.

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  12. What a broken arm? Cute girl. Son mark was proud of his 'cast on a broken foot!' I was lucky, no bones and great 'straight hair' for a few years, then I wished I had a wig. LOL
    I always love the wig pics. It was the THING! So all you girls did it. 'twas COOL!
    VO5? bet your bippy Me 'n your mom. I still have a tube out in the coach, for my beard. LOL I rub it on my head and WISH! LOL
    I enjoyed the vist, great read s usual.
    Love ya
    Sherry & jack who now have a living room couch to go pick up. Hugs to the big guy!

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    1. Ya, the only good thing about that plaster cast was getting autographs from my friends. But oh, how it itched! Congrats on the 'new' couch!

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  13. My hair has always had a mind of its own. Now I keep it short, wear a hat when I go out, and don't look in the mirror. That works just fine. 😛

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    1. Mind of its own ... yep. I love my hats and visors too, for just that reason!

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  14. I remember that dippity do and wearing wigs too. Back in the day everyone had one. Now I cannot imagine how I stood to wear one. These days wash and dry hair styles are my thing and thank goodness for the blow drying. It helps more than anything.

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    1. The retirement 'wash and wear' style works for me, too. Blow dryer and a fat round brush? Easy-peasy!

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  15. Oh my...we all had our hair issues. You were very cute, and I am sorry you ever thought otherwise! My hair was red, and I got called all kinds of unflattering names. I also did the very short hair cut in high school, and did the dippity do stuff and taped down the sides and top because I have these crazy cowlicks...still do, and I have bedhead every day. Never really got into wearing a wig, except when about 10 or 12 they had those "shag" wigs that were fun. My cousin and I each got one for Christmas that year, and I was a blonde with fuzzy hair for a while and thought I was so glamorous! LOL. I think you are lovely from what I can see, and you have beautiful hair...so relax and enjoy yourself!!

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    1. Aw, thanks! My high school BF was/is a readhead and yes, she was taunted. (Wonder if that wouldn't be considered bullying today.)
      Do you by chance happen to have a photo of yourself in that shag wig? How fun!

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  16. I think you were a cutie pie. I always had long thick and straight hair growing up. I remember sporting the “Pixie cut” too.
    With my think hair, there are many hair styles I like but can not do.
    Lisa

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  17. Sorry I'm late. I love your French braids. I also remember when girls had the pixie cut.

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  18. Myra, this was a great read, reminded me of how I struggled with my hair as a child, I finally learned to appreciate mine when it started to gray, and thin, Wish I had that thick red hair now. Smile!
    Thanks for sharing.Thank you for visiting.
    Sue

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