Thursday, February 20, 2025

 

Thought for the day?

Mother Nature clearly can't pick a season and stick with it!


Nevertheless, we were fortunate to have dry sunny skies, for our visit to UAB.  All good news, and his cardiologist cleared the way for Tom to undergo hip replacement surgery -- if that's what he decides.

The new-to-me restaurant?  Oh friends, I'd such visions of a steaming bowl of French Onion soup.  In reality, neither of us was "in the mood" and all Tom wanted was a fast-food Whopper.  (I may have a trucker's appetite but draw the line at that particular establishment.)



Thank y'all so much for your condolences on our friends' loss!  Amazing how one little fellow touched so many hearts in his short life; their church building was full -- including several of his nurses who traveled from UAB. 

Thank goodness, I don't make a habit of attending funeral services, but like on Tuesday I'm reminded to tell my loved ones what I'd like ... more importantly, what I don't!  Have you?   (I don't share this to paint a doom-and-gloom scenario.  I always do my best to stay positive.)


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So!  Unlike many who're "sooo done" with Olde Man Winter, I'm relishing what's probably the last few days' opportunity to bundle up and turn on the oven.   Ignore cosmetics; the burgeoning weed population, too.   I'm going to settle down with a good book.   For instance?  Blogger friend Victor's recently published "The Bitten Apple Connection" that prompted me to review: "Ever enjoyable; never predictable.  Our favorite protagonist, Father Ignatius once again takes us where angels fear to tread."



Perhaps it's the season -- but I'm cautiously optimistic my love of reading is slowly coming back around.

This image (from the web) and accompanying post I shared back in 2015.  Some dreams stay the same, y'all.   I still ...

..... Would love to own and operate my own indy bookstore.  Someplace where profits aren't as important as creating an atmosphere where people go to feel welcome. Cloistered.

... accessorized with comfy oversize wing chairs, where fireplaces sputter and a fresh pot of coffee's at the ready.  A gentleman's parlor with cognac, subtly vented to dispel smoke from their pipes.  (Sorry if I sound chauvinistic, but I think some traditions were better left 'as is.')

For example?  A comfort food cafe, where field greens -- and sushi -- are conspicuously absent.   Where servers' eyes reflect sincerity when they ask, "How are you?"
Oh, and where size 6's need not apply (lol).

Who'd like to join me?




I hope you discover a bit of joy today.
I sure appreciate you stopping by!

(Those who watch what I write)


Hugs, Myra







38 comments:

  1. Let me start by saying that I'm praying for Tom's and yours good health. Praise the Lord for the doctor's good news.

    It is indeed so tragic when a young child or baby dies. We never understand "why?" but the Good Lord has His reasons, and in all humility, (however difficult), we should accept it in good faith. Perhaps such tragic events are an opportunity for all of us to pull together and support each other in such heartbreaking times.

    Thank you so much for reviewing my book "The Bitten Apple Connection". I'll go and check AMAZON straight-away. I really appreciate your continued support, my friend. Hopefully, when you open your book-store you'll stock some of my books for your clients.

    God bless you and your family always.

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  2. Ok, I enjoyed the visit, BUT this one started me thinking ..... .... Would love to own and operate my own indy bookstore. ..... This old man remembers one of my uncle Oscars Businesses was simply a auto junk yard.... As a kid I climbed in and out of those wrecks and junks and drove them all over the world, at 86 yrs old, I still want a junk yard. HAHAHAHA. However it would have to be far away from our home. LOL Thanks for sending my lazy mind traveling....
    And yes my heart still hurts at the loss of the child in your congregation...

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    1. I never would have guessed ... but love the visual!

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  3. I'm just about to read Victor's latest book, too, Myra. How I love Fr. Ignatius! I like how you described that bookstore you dream about, too. Stay warm and cozy in this cold, my friend.
    Blessings!

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    1. Yes! I often think (that) like that old TV show, Father Knows Best.

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  4. Myra, you got me to thinking too. Our dream has always been to have a quaint antique/tea room combo. Dreams and finances never came together and now with everything on line there is not much chance of making a go of it, but like you, it would be more about creating a cozy space to chat with friends and soon to be friends. Some dreams never die but just sort of fade into history.
    I think I have to renew my love of reading too and get into Victor's books. Thanks for the boost.
    I do love those dolls on your shelf and the open book. That's just my style.
    So glad Tom's Dr. appointment went well and that he is cleared for surgery.
    We have boycotted "whopper-dom" for many years. In fact I haven't seen that restaurant around here for years.
    Hope your day goes well and that you can get some delicious French Onion Soup soon !!
    Sue

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    1. What a great idea! I'd love to visit your antique/tea room -- if only in my dreams!

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  5. I would be there...love a comfy book store. Could I add a side room for yarn and accessories that would have comfy chairs where could sit and crochet/knit and discuss the books we've been reading?

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    1. Another great idea! How my late mother would have loved that.

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  6. Oh Myra...I would be a constant customer of your dream book house. I can already feel those big chair, me resting comfortably, with very soft music playing in the background... Me, sipping on a warm cup of something.. My MIL passed away in Sept of 23, but about a week before she passed, she called me over and told me to bring a pen and a notebook. She told me exactly what she wanted and didn't want at her service. Colors, flowers, everything. She even had me write down who was going to get her dishes and all of the things that meant so much to her. At the time, I felt so uncomfortable in doing this, but with she and my FIL having two sons, and me being the only DIL, it sure made things so easy...Guys sometimes do not tend to the little things that are important to us ladies. Everything was exactly as she wanted it. That French onion soup sounds good and I hope you are able to get a delicious bowl of it soon. I always have a lot of fun here at your blog...hugs.

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    1. What a wise lady! You've given me an idea ....

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  7. Gosh, you and Sue at photowannabe both have captured some of my early life dreams. I'd kind of forgotten them as life as progressed into old age...LOL. The tea room/book store/cozy place to chat with friends...I'd probably skip the gentlemen's parlor with the pipes, etc., even though they had their place in time and history, much like some also had the old country general store where the men sat and played checkers by the pot bellied stove too...But I'd stick to things that the ladies enjoy most. Let the men figure out their own places. LOL.
    Praying for Tom and for his possible surgery.Keep us posted, okay? (((hugs))) to you today.

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    1. I sure will! Thanks so much for your thoughts!

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  8. I'm already living my dream life. Fingers crossed it continues for a bit! 😊

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  9. By the way ... I DO love French onion soup. I once ordered it in a French restaurant. Sadly, I discovered a fly in it !!!

    I told the waiter in French pointing at it "Le mouche dans ma soupe!"

    He corrected me saying, "Non Monsieur, Eeet eeez la mouche!"

    I replied, "You must have great eyesight to tell which sex it is!"

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  10. Glad Tom was cleared for surgery if he wants it. I love French Onion soup. That inn would be perfect for a book store - and you could have soup and sandwiches and coffee for them to eat after their purchase. You could live upstairs!

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  11. I need to know what the new to you restaurant with the delicious French Onion Soup is. I am always in the mood for it.

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    1. The Village Tavern. We've not been to the one at Summit, but when in Arizona we used to love it's sister property in Scottsdale.

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  12. Mother had a notebook, a spiral one with school paper in it and dividers. she had labels on the dividers, music, service, funeral home with all instructions, phone numbers. all we had to do was hand the book to the funeral director, that just happened to be a close friend of my parents. the only thing daddy had to do was pick the coffin .
    I read every day of my life, I even get emails from Amazon congratulations of reading every day last year. I could come visit you , but the people sitting in the chairs trying to read and drink tea and listen to soft music, would ask me to leave even though I am not size 6... the reason would be I rather talk if there are people. I find it hard to read when in the company of others. I like my own home and no TV or music and no people... Like David G once said, he hoped he would never end up sitting by me on an airplane because he doesn't care what my dog did or did not do and doesn't want to see my photos. haha ha... people in books a million hated me, when I went to get iced cappuccino, they were quietly reading while I chatted with he person selling me the coffee..

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    1. Your mother was sure wise before her time! Boo-hiss on those people who don't "get" your congeniality.

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  13. I love to read and visit book stores. However, I do my reading at home. Yes, wintertime is a good time to snuggle in with a good book, but then when it's warm out I LOVE sitting on the porch reading a book too. Glad all is well for a hip replacement for Tom. It'll be great to have it all done and over. Only 2 more days of this cold stuff here. Come Sunday we'll start to warm back up. Take good care, Love, ma

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    1. Well, first we have to find a surgeon, but fingers crossed! Glad your temperature's warming and you can porch sit once again!

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  14. Hi Myra, You were asking about photo #2 on my recent blog post.
    Its an old piece of mining equipment that I spied in Bodie, NV. It was discarded out in a field. Thought the colors and focus of seeing the field through the hole and the brilliant blue sky made a fun abstract photo. I love that type of thing. Thanks for being curious.
    Sue

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  15. I wanna visit your comfy tea shop! That would be my dream too. I'd play nice, relaxing music in mine with specialty coffee, sofa's to lounge on, book cases to peruse while there and light comfort food. Oh yeah.
    The book sounds wonderful. Thanks for the review.
    My heart is still breaking for the parents about Sammy. Little angel. Our Pastor's wife is slipping away. She's late 70s, has kidney failure, bone cancer, and many other terrible conditions. It's only a matter of time ... this is breaking my heart too. She's a dear friend and a wonderful lady.
    Blessings. 💗

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    1. I'm so sorry to hear about your pastor's wife. I remember you speaking of her fondly. I'm lifting a prayer right now - both for she and her husband.

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  16. The Burger King comment cracked me up! You describe a loving bookstore atmosphere that I would enjoy, too. Even with the smoking pipe. Connected to a little café, perfect! Actually, it's not a downer to talk about our transition. I think our families breathe a sigh of relief when they know exactly how we wish to be laid to rest. I heard a pastor speak of how beautiful death is; it's like taking off a tee shirt and putting a new one on. It's not a fearful thing for a Christian. I like that.

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    1. What a great illustration! Thank you for sharing your pastor's words.

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  17. I'm so glad to hear about Tom's clean bill of health. I know that Mark and I don't want service. Just gather the family together and go out to dinner. Enjoy your book. I need to pick up a book and read. Your book store sounds perfect! Enjoy your weekend.

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  18. Answering your last question... yes!! I'm so happy your hubby's report is good to go with the hip replacement. My final plans are made and paid for and my boys know what to do. It feels good to know it's done. Sending a hug!!

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    1. That's just what my mother said! I didn't fully appreciate it until she passed. Hugs!

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  19. Me, Myra. I'll join you, that is also my dream, smiles. Wishing you a lovely Sunday my friend. Glad Tom got a good report. smiles

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    1. Glad to have you on board! Happy Sunday, Linda.

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