Wednesday, February 17, 2021

A time to every purpose under Heaven



"Just like the ones I used to know ...."



So, my emotions are all over the place today.  How about, I start with the good?



Yesterday morning, I had my first taste of Winter in 40 years!

Restless, the dogs got me out at 4-something ... still too dark to see the tiny flakes of SNOW falling.  A little later I stood at the front window, absolutely transfixed.

20* and I'm humming Andy Williams' Happy Heart.
Tom and Grace were like, "Please. Curb your enthusiasm."

Giving me the 'stink eye.'



OK.  I was a bit deflated when, preparing to leave for my hair appointment, I discovered my car doors were frozen shut.  Then half-way down the road, the Check Engine light came on.

It's not much, baby, but it's all we got.



We were cautioned to leave our faucets trickling and open the doors beneath the kitchen sink.
But I'm over here, scratching my head.  Having grown up in snow country -- and later living in West Texas -- I'm accustomed to freezing temperatures.  But never, ever recall having done that.  What's changed?  Hopefully, someone smarter than me can explain.



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Many of you probably shared my shock and dismay to learn that Terri (Your Friend From Florida) lost her beloved yesterday afternoon from complications of COVID-19.

Not 24 hours earlier,  I shared her frustration (that) Joe hadn't yet been released from the hospital: His vitals were all good; his lungs clear.
I'm heartbroken.


I think Pam said it best.  (I hope you won't mine me quoting you?)

Dear friends, if you are still blessed to have your mate with you, please hug them a little closer tonight and thank the good Lord for His kindness and grace.   And please pray for our dear friend Terri and their sons and families as they grieve the loss of this very dear, sweet man. 



God bless, y'all.  Good be with you!

Hugs, Myra







 

31 comments:

  1. There will be a lot more extreme weather events coming because of global warming. I just read an article saying power companies need to adjust to be able to handle them.

    I’m so sorry about your friend. Andy and I are very aware our time together is limited, and that has nothing to do with COVID. So we appreciate what we have while we still have it.

    Take care!

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    1. I know it didn't 'just happen', but it sounds like you and Andy are living the dream. Nice!

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  2. Even without Covid Bob and I are really OLD and even if we live to our 90's that is fast approaching. we talk about it a lot, i fret a lot, can't help myself.
    So sorry to hear of Terry's loss and my condolences to her and family and to you and her blog friends. I was raised in Savannah and KY and we always turn the faucets to drip when a freeze was coming. living here in Florida we did not have to, but in 1990, a freeze came for one night, we did not leave anything dripping. Next day the timer turned the pool pump on and Pow the filter exploded. Ice expanded and cracked it in two pieces. not sure why but think moving water doesn't freeze as quickly as still water. hope you dripped them.. also hope the car is ok and was just shivering when it ask you to check your engine light. the one on my Kia has been on and off for 2 years. nothing has happened. it is a stupid computer and all they do is reset the light and charge a fortune, it can't tell what is wrong and they hook up to a computer and ALwaYS find something. per auto mechanic hubby. that said I will not drive it over the skyway�� PS love your selfie, is that in a mirror?

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    1. Interesting! Yes, we've had our faucets dripping for two nights now. Yes, to the selfie. 'Just discovered FaceApp and I'm having a ball.

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  3. Thank you for sharing that Myra. I am still reeling from this shock and my heart is really saddened for Terri. He was such a sweet sweet man. We just never know, do we? Thank the Lord they are strong believers and she can have that peace that passes all understanding, knowing that her hubby is safe in the arms of Jesus today. That is our one great hope and comfort. On the other note, I am sorry you got "frozen"...that is no fun. Snow is supposed to be fun! (that was for kids, apparently, not adults, although I have had fun with sun in the past too). Take care and stay warm and hug your honey often.

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    1. I know, right? These bones grew old before my imagination caught up.

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  4. Still shocked...my husband (stammering),"But, but we got a Christmas card in December!" Yes. Shocking...and I know Joe is safely in the Lord's arms now...

    As for snow, I am more than happy to send you the foot of snow we got...I am over winter...for the first time in 7 years, I am done.

    Check engine light? Did you find out about that? Just wondering...

    Keeping you in prayer sweet friend.

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    1. Nothing official yet; Tom's truck is our usual mode of transportation. Since the Camry was recently serviced, I suspect it's just a glitch.

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  5. I, too, am shocked beyond belief at Joe's sudden passing, Myra. My tears were flowing early this morning and really haven't let up as dear Rush Limbaugh passed away today. So much loss, so much grief, so many prayers needed for peace and comfort.
    Stay safe and stay well!

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  6. I'm with Tom & Grace, quit jumping around!! LOL I am glad something today had already 'Yanked your Chain!'
    But, yes sadness whe some one loses a mate, and yes I do appreciate mine more each time I hear it.
    Love from a cool North Carolina. The dog-bit guy who is doing fine....

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    1. Well, Winter has long been my favorite season. I'd just forgotten how c-c-c-old it is. 🙂

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  7. I love the selfie Myra and the photo of you getting the stink eye lol. I would have been transfixed and happy to see that too. With the way the weather is going you just never know, I might get to see it!

    Leaving the faucets trickling and the cabinet doors open help keep the pipes from freezing. The same thing that happened to Sandra happened to me with the pool pump during a freeze. I also tend to agree with her on the check engine light. See if it just goes off after this weather passes.

    I'm so sorry to hear about your friend's husband.

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    1. That's so crazy about the pool pump. What an unpleasant experience! Yep on the check engine light -- Google has a host of possible scenarios, none of which involve an exploding engine. LOL.

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  8. I offer my prayers to Terri and family, and to you Mevely and family.

    God bless.

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    1. Thank you so much, Victor. That means a great deal. 💜

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  9. Thank you, Myra. All the love and prayers surrounding me right now are so comforting! A total shock and I cry often when it hits me. Hope your car is okay and glad we don't have snow in Florida!

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  10. Sorry to hear about the loss of your friend's hubby. Always a shock!

    Brr with the cold temps and the ice and the snow! Give me warm weather any old time! Enjoy and be safe out there!

    betty

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  11. forty years is a long time not to see snow. that first glimpse yesterday had to tug at your heart. stay warm. mother nature is crazy right now. i am so sorry to hear about the passing of your friend. may he now rest in peace.

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  12. I'm so sorry about the death of your friend. I went to her blog and posted, too. That is so heart breaking.
    I could be wrong about the pipes but I think our homes are not as insulated as homes in parts of the country that regularly see bitter cold temps. I know our roofs are not made to withstand the weight of a heavy snow like houses up north. With newer homes, they use a type of pipe (pex) that is not supposed to burst. They can still freeze but it expands rather than bursts. I think that is what our house has.

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  13. Thank you for the reminder from you and Pam to remember to be thankful for our loved ones. None of us are promised tomorrow.

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  14. Saying a prayer tonight for your friend. It's a blessing to be alive and enjoy another day with a spouse. The snow is beautiful.

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  15. Hi Myra:
    Anyone who knows Terri is praying for her due the loss of Joe.
    I went to Terri's blog and posted too.
    You put it so beautifully and as I still have my
    husband I am truly thankful as we never know about what is to come.

    https://gloriasretiredlife.blogspot.com/




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    1. Yes, I need to practice an attitude of gratitude.

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  16. I honestly am in shock over the weather. So sad for so many people. My poor MIL had to stay in bed all bundled up. She's 93. Her son couldn't even drive over to pick her up. I haven't followed Terri in several years. So sorry for her loss.

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